I want to give a talk to you. This is the story.
A young woman told her mother about life and how things were so hard for her. She did not know how she was going to make it and wanted to give up. Her mother took her to the kitchen. She filled three pots with water and placed each on a high fire. Soon the pots came to a boil. In the first, she placed carrots, in the second she placed eggs, and in the last she placed ground coffee beans. She let them sit and boil.
In about twenty minutes she turned off the burners. She brought her closer and asked her to feel the carrots. She noted that they were soft. She then asked her to take an egg and break it. After pulling off the shell, she observed the hard-boiled egg. Finally, she asked her to sip the coffee. The daughter smiled, as she tasted its rich aroma.
Her mother explained that each of these objects had faced the same adversity but each reacted differently.